Veronica Mendes

Veronica Mendes
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Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Stop it already...

I inhabit the crossdresser corner of the T-community, and as many wise and educated T-sisters know, we have a different, yet equally valid and legitimate connection to the T-Community. The inclusion of so many diverse components is what makes this community so broad and yet so amazing and should be the source of strength in forging a sisterhood of acceptance and understanding, regardless of which corner of this community you inhabit.  I may be spouting a pipe dream here, but I wish the hate amongst groups within this community would subside.  I believe there should NEVER be a discussion or debate regarding who is or is not "Trans enough" to stake claim to membership in this wonderful community.  Being a T-girl is about self-discovery and self-expression, regardless of what level of discovery or expression one wishes to divulge. I am so saddened every time I come across a "TG" hating on CDs and calling them just "guys in dresses," calling us detriments to your cause or other similar flames.  Let's stop the hipocrisy.  Each one of us has our own unique and personal journey and as such, should be respected by every other one of us. Each individual journey carries with it a story of discovery, struggle, hardships, emotions, failures and triumphs.  Thus, nobody has the right to downplay anyone's journey in favor of theirs.